When it comes to sex toys, a vibrator is one of the most commonly used ones. While vibrators are mostly used by women but they can be used easily by both the partners in a heterosexual relationship as well. There are a lot of ways one can play with a vibrator. These are some of the ways to be creative using a vibrator:
Use with Oral Sex
To get this done, you will have to use your tongue and mouth in tandem with the vibrations to get your partner off. This can be done to make partners as well. You will have to use your mouth on the penis and then put the vibrator right under the base of the penis. This will stimulate the nerve endings of the penis which will bring forth the orgasm faster.
Use for double penetration
If you like anal sex then there are vibrating dildos available as well. Unlike the common image of huge dildos, there are small ones available as well. These small dildos can be inserted in the vagina if you want to enjoy double penetration. If you are going solo, then along with the vibrating dildo in your vagina, you can use a butt plug. Of course, make sure that you have used a butt plug before otherwise, you might find that it’s not very comfortable to use. For butt plugs, dildos and other such insertable toys, it’s better to start with small ones and begin slow.
Using during shower sex
But before proceeding with this, couples need to be sure that the vibrator is fully waterproof. Moreover, it should be submersible so that it can be used for long periods underwater. Tease your partner with the vibrator. Begin with the inner thighs before going to their anus. But don’t slide the vibrator in. Wait before engaging in anal play. You don’t even have to engage in anal play, just use the stimulations from the vibrations to get off.
Give an erotic massage
This will work for couples. Back massages can be erotic and it will build up the sexual tension in the relationship. First, your partner will have to lie down. Then begin teasing him or her with little vibrations all over the body. Don’t go for the genitals right away. Instead try out other erogenous zones like the neck, inner thigh, and labia. This will also help release a hormone called cortisol, which will make it that much easier to achieve pleasure. Then you can proceed to use the vibrator on the G-spot or the clit for women and on the perineum or penis for men to get them off. For this, you can use wand-like vibrators. As they are great for carrying out neck and back massage as well. This kind of vibrator will let you go for foreplay as well as beyond.
Try public sex
Many might balk at this, but if you want to get creative with the vibrator then it’s time to take it out of the bedroom. There are a lot of vibrators that come with apps. This means that your partner will be able to control it from a distance and just using his or her phone. Install the app and surprise your partner in public or a variety of other locations. These vibrators can be used in a situation where you don’t have to be nude. This means that the clothing will help in heightening the friction and the anticipation. Also, being in a sexual situation in public is a huge turn-on for many. But don’t go too overboard as it can land you in trouble for public indecency.
Get mutual pleasure
You can use the vibrator to stimulate both yourself and your partner. If your partner is male, then use the vibrator on your clitoris to stimulate yourself while you lick his genitals. This will help both of you orgasm.
There are also a lot of vibrators that you can use or wear during penetrative sex. Some examples include cock rings, vibrating strap ons, mini vibes, etc. These are great for use by both the partners. There are other vibrators like the bullet which can be used to stimulate the clitoris during sex.
Using a cock ring will work as well. This is because they come in a lot of sizes and shapes. They are perfect for heterosexual couples since the vibration from the cock ring will stimulate the G-spot of the partner while the constriction around the shaft will help in erectile function.
Some Safety Tips
There are some things you need to be mindful of while using a vibrator:
- Use vibrators for fun. Don’t go so extreme while using your creativity that it lands you or your partner in a hospital.
- Don’t go for do-it-yourself or DIY sex toys if you are looking for another add toy to add in with your vibrator fun.
- Make sure that the vibrator and any other toy that you are using with it is thoroughly cleaned. This will help to avoid infections. Know that the cleaning instructions will differ according to the material as well as the type of toy. So keep that in mind and follow instructions while cleaning.
- After you are done cleaning the vibrator, make sure to properly store it. The toy should be away from dust and dirt. Many vibrators come with their own storage space or bags. But if that’s not the case with yours, then simply store it in a place where it won’t get dirty, get mold, or any other such things.
In the end, a vibrator can be used creatively in a lot of ways. Try out your ways or figure it out with your partner. But make sure to only proceed once both of you are comfortable with the idea. You should also mix in some other toys as suggested above. This will add in more spice in your sex life. This will help you add more fun and excitement. Ultimately, it will help you have a more fulfilling and exciting sex life. Here are more for more lovegasm goodness, to help you get started with vibrators.